I sold my guitar yesterday
My bounced-paycheck woes still have yet to be resolved, So I sold my guitar so that I could get food and even more importantly kitty litter. Pawnshop gave me $50 for it (as a saleâit would have been $40 as a loan), which is not too bad. I bought it for $100 in 1990.
Basically I refuse to take on any new unsecured debt. You can’t get out of debt by borrowing money. Also, lets face it, it was technically clutter. I don’t play the guitar much at all. The darn thing was taking up space in my closet. I heard a great guideline for keeping or discarding stuff: anything you haven’t used or looked at even once in a year you should sell or throw away. Obviously there are exceptions to this. Smoke detectors and family heirlooms, some financial papers, things like that.
But mostly I was interested in the idea of having a guitar more than actually playing it. I’m not very good, and I really mean that. If I ever decide to have a guitar again, I can pick up some electric jobber that will be more suited to the kind of music I’m interested in. The old one was a roundbacked electro-acoustic and had a real pretty sound, but the action was high, so it was murder on my fingers, especially because I didn’t play it very much and I never built those calluses at the tips of my fingers.
Anyway, for playing guitar less than once a year, I can go to a friend’s house and play theirs. It’s a good excuse for me to visit friends anyway.
And it does feel clean not to borrow money. I wonder what else I have that I can get rid of…
I’m sorry to hear about your
I’m sorry to hear about your financial problems; it’s especially annoying that they’re caused by a client’s mis-handling. I’ve dropped my terms to Net 15 and started progress biling when I have ongoing work for clients to try and minimize my exposure; I had a client who was paying invoices in 60 – 90 days and I didn’t have a lot of milestones to bill on, so paychecks were few and far between for a while.
I can relate to not wanting to take on any more unsecured debt. Adopting a child is an expensive venture; add 4 years of various infertility treatments variably covered under insurance and you’ve got the recipe for a huge debt load. We ended up putting quite a bit of medical costs onto a credit card.
We’re trying to re-finance our mortgage to try and drop our mortgage cost, but with one steady income instead of two and our aforementioned credit card balance, it’s a little tough. We’ve cut back on a lot of little things, but the cards and financine for one of our cars is a big chunk every month. I’ve thought about selling the car off and buying a beater (we could do that and still come out even, and still have the babywagon) but it would be a bummer if I got a job somewhere where I was stuck driving to/from work.
We’ll be paying the credit card down for 5 – 6 years. By the time Ethan’s ready for expensive private school, we’ll just have it paid down!
After years of having lots of discretionary income in my early-to-mid thirties when my wife and I were both working and childless, I’m in a position of not needing any new toys. I have a decent digital camera that suits my needs, lots of film cameras, my LOMO, a crusty old rangefinder, a decent desktop system, a laptop (although it’s in for repairs), a low-end computer lab for testing (2 PII systems, 2 Pentiums), my trusty old Palm IIIx, a killer espresso maker, and more stuff than I can fit in my garage.
I’m going to start selling stuff to finance any new discretionary purchases; this will give the added benefit of making room for anything new by forcing me to get rid of something first, force me to really think about any new discretionary purchases, and save on the already bloated credit card balance.
I hadn’t been keeping up to
I hadn’t been keeping up to date on your life, so that was all very interesting. Congratulations on adopting! I’ve always thought that if I were to have a child, I’d probably adopt. But who knows, really?
What’s a LOMO? The link didn’t work.
doh! I forgot we’re in
doh! I forgot we’re in Splicer’s journal.
Sorry to hear about the guitar sale dude. But you’re right, it sounds like it’s probably for the best. I’m in the same boat — not a lot of space and when I want new stuff, I have to get rid of the old. Plus I have shit I’ve been planning to EBAY forever.
Oops, the link was broken.
Oops, the link was broken. It’s supposed to be http://lomo.kataan.org. The LOMO is a crude little soviet-era 35mm camera that takes unique pictures. They’re great for night shots (the shutter will stay open 2 minutes in darkness) and street candids. They’re fun cameras; I’ve not shot with a camera that’s anything like it, and I keep going back to it no matter what I’m shooting with.
http://www.lomography.com has lots of information about them, and overpriced models for sale. I bought mine for half-price from some guy in the Ukraine on Ebay… 🙂
Thanks for your well-wishes! We tried to have a baby on our own for 3 years or so, tried 2 rounds of in-vitro fertilization, and finally decided to adopt. It’s an open adoption; we met the birthparents (she’s 15, he’s 18) before the birth, met the family, and Ethan’s birth parents and grandparents will be a part of his life. That way, not knowing where he came from won’t come back to bite him down the road, and he’ll have some connection to his biological family. A couple of extra grandparents to spoil him and buy him presents isn’t a bad thing, either!
Oops, sorry, Splicer –
Oops, sorry, Splicer — didn’t mean to get sidetracked in your journal. I guess there’s a whole layer of journal net.etiquette I’d better brush up on!
No problem – what do I care?
No problem – what do I care? If I invited the two of you to my house and you started talking about lomography i wouldn’t throw you out or anything. Sit! Eat! Talk! Enjoy!
Mi journel es su journel.
Or something.