Re: jection

Every­one knows what AA is, right? Well here’s an anec­dote about the ori­gins of AA: Bill Wil­son, one of the founders of AA, had tried to get a bunch of gut­ter-drunks sober for months before he met Dr. Bob Smith, the singer of the Cure oth­er founder. He had no suc­cess, and one day was despair­ing of the fact that none of the drunks he’d been work­ing with had stayed sober. And his wife Lois point­ed out, «but Bill, it’s kept you sober.»

Wow, very clar­i­fy­ing. I want to bring this prin­ci­ple into my own life. Not get­ting what I think I want is OK, because I receive the impor­tant ben­e­fit of the action. I like that.

So over the past few months, I’ve been ask­ing women out on dates. And they’ve all said no. But that’s OK, because…

hmmm.…

See, this is where the anal­o­gy breaks down.

12 Replies to “Re: jection”

    1. I’m glad you’re feel­ing
      I’m glad you’re feel­ing bet­ter, and sor­ry to hear that you’re down. You’ve post­ed a few things late­ly that have let on that you’re not sail­ing as smooth­ly as might be, so I’m not total­ly out of the loop. Hang in there.

  1. Hey, one thing that get­ting
    Hey, one thing that get­ting turned down teach­es me is that it’s survivable.

    You’re still walk­ing, talk­ing, and breath­ing, right?

    Also, if you can do half a dozen in a row and keep ask­ing, that shows grit.

    I hope that the women who’ve turned you down did so gra­cious­ly. So few women seem to know how to do that, or they choose not to.

      1. Even: would you and Nan­cy or
        Even: would you and Nan­cy or you and any­one else like to go see Echo and the Bun­ny­men tonight? Tick­ets are free, max­i­mum two.

          1. Nope. I meant tonight, as in
            Nope. I meant tonight, as in last night, when I post­ed it.

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